Do's and Don't At Your First 'HYE'

Frustrated?
Can't even think about it?
People are ignoring you?
Apa yang kurang?
Anda kacak !
Anda bergaya !
Anda kaya !
Tapi people are avoiding you?

WHY?

Tanya diri sendiri, hehe.Ok, WMA tolong bagitahu.
Dalam tempoh 5 saat pertama , what people see is you.
1st Impression is you.!
So bila anda menyapa seseorang dengan harapan dia akan terus berminat untuk meneruskan perbualan dengan anda, pastikan anda menggunakan ayat yang sungguh catchy !

Lainlah kalau anda seorang artis yang tiba tiba menegur anda,
of course you will be interested.


Tips - tips untuk memulakan perbualan secara baik dan menarik !

1) Don't expect people will answer you long question in one shot !

Don't tell your friends about your indigestion. "How are you" is a greeting, not a question. - Arthur Guiterman

As we speak, people are getting bored dengan cara anda menegur mereka . Be creative! haha ! ( cakap orang, kau pun same jugak ! )
Contohnya ,

DON'T! : " Hye , boleh berkenalan? ".
DO : " Selamat pagi ! , dare to talk to new stranger today? "

2) Be MINIMUM !

Ketika mula mengenali seseorang, eloklah bertanyakan soalan atau berbual perkara yang minima sahaja, sehinggalah merasakan keselesaan. Elakkan dari bercakap perkara-perkara yang terlalu personal jika dilihat sahabat baru itu belum selesa untuk berbicara mengenainya. - munaizzah.blogspot

BE MINIMUM ! this is the most importance ! , macam entry above, walau bagaimana sekalipun anda angau dengan wanita atau jejaka di hadapan anda, tolong jangan move toooooo fast ! slow down, talk something lite sahaja. But remember ? jangan selalu mengharapkan sesuatu untuk berlaku dengan pantas. kerana sesungguhnya, "membina lebih susah dari meruntuhkan."

DON'T : " Awak ni cantik lah , awak dah ada boyfriend? boleh kenal? "
DO : " So how was it? Got any plan today? " ( play sedikit dengan moment, jgan rush)

3) Stereotyping

If you’re one in a million, there are six thousand people exactly like you. - J.Touch

Being stereotype? WRONG PLACE! WRONG TIME! change change !.
Do not follow the others ! , ok like i said above kan? berhati hati apabila memulakan perbualan. Don't start it with hye, aiiiiiiiiii, woi, hye cantik manis, boleh kenal ngan adik?, dah makan? dah mandi? dah mati?.READ THEIR PROFILE and ask them something they din't tell! owh my god! hahaha. ok macam ni, there are some people anggap what i tell you ni is rude. but tgok sekeliling. if you are 40 , and desperately need a partner, then you can do as you wish. But if you are just started, and you are in 20's, you better follow my tips. because girls nowdays like something new, something different from others.I'am telling you the truth.bukannya zaman P.Ramlee when people are still ketuk the bottle to call his 'buah hati' ;) ( Sarcastic )

DON'T : " Hye, dah makan? duk mane? sihat? "
DO: " Morning ! , how was your night? eh , last night i bace your profile, you stay Gombak ye? how was it? " ( i'm not that creative, but i tried, its worked! )

4) Be bad ! (hehehe)

But seduction isn’t making someone do what they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing what they secretly want to do already. - Waiter Rant

Whoaaaa ! i bukan suruh you all jadi pengganas ke ape owh, haha. Seduce them with your sensation, say something that boleh buat dorang catch ape yang korang cuba sampaikan. NOTICE : do not use SX word! you will be charged because trying to harass an Old Lady ! I mean word so that lady wouldn't think that you are a GEEK or GLEE or anything that not sound to good kat halwa telinga korang. haha.

DON'T : " I'am so F'ing Horny , how was you?! " (BLAM! you died)
DO : " I'am a bad person who don't mind being slam by the door by first date, but i do mind if i can't say hye to you ". ( CEWAHH! but be careful, not always working if kita salah pilih orang ye?)

5) Buat statement yang boleh menarik minat mereka

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

Ok, mostly orang ni kuat perasan tau? So main tarik tali sedikit. ape i maksudkan is korang jangan tunjukkan sangat yang korang ni minat kat that girl/boy ! Biarkan dia dalam keadaan tertanya tanya, so ini akan menimbulkan perasaan ingin tahu dan terus berhubung dengan anda. This tips is always working ! but please, susun ayat bia betul ! :)

DON'T : " Saya comment awak bukan nak kapel pun, nak kenal je. xleh? " (KUANG AJAQ!)
DO : " Before i terlupa, i want you to know that i'm not easily to fall in love with people i just knew from the internet, so don't worry. :) i won't bite at all " ( hahaha !, spontan je ni, mengantok kot tulis article . korang reka lah sendiri)



So after all, korang kena judge sendiri.
Remember that bukan semua orang ni sama.
sometime they are diffrent from the others.
but usaha tu penting. :)
kalau dah jodoh, tak kemana. ye tak? hehe.
Good Luck!